Suzanna. In love with a schnauzer named Mimzy. Instagram

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skepticalscrutiny:

December 18, 2012  |  “But what about the men?” It’s a question that’s been avoided by the mainstream within the context of mass shootings.

The recent tragedy in Newtown, Connecticut sparked thousands of conversations across the continent about gun laws, mental illness, and violence. And sadly, we’ve been here before.

We’ve had conversations about access to guns – the victims would still be alive today, after all, if there were no gun. We’ve talked about the need to better address mental illness in North America – about how people need access to services and treatment. With proper support, potential perpetrators could get the help they need before it’s too late. And what about the media? We see violence all the time in movies, video games, and on television. Have we become so desensitized to violence that mass murder has become par for the course? Or, worse, a way to achieve fame in a culture obsessed with celebrity as a goal unto itself?

All these factors are relevant. All of these conversations should be had. But no one is asking what is, for once, the single most important question: What about the men?

In 31 of the school shootings that have taken place since 1999 , the murderers were all men. Out of the 62 mass murders which happened over the past 30 years , only one of those shooters was a woman. The overwhelming majority of the gunmen were white.

“Imagine if 61 out of 62 mass killings were done by women? Would that be seen as merely incidental and relegated to the margins of discourse?” Katz asks, “No. It would be the first thing people talked about.”

In the U.S., where health care is privatized, it’s true that many people don’t have adequate access to mental health services. Racial and ethnic minorities are even less likely to have access to health services, as well as, more generally the poor and unemployed. But not only are these mass shootings committed largely by white men, but by middle class white men. If this were primarily an issue of people not having access to mental health services, it would stand to reason that far more mass shootings would be perpetrated by poor minorities, particularly women of color.

This isn’t to say that men are somehow naturally inclined towards violence. It isn’t reasonable to argue that men are born angry or crazy. Masculinity, on the other hand, is something worth thinking about.

“It’s hidden in plain sight,” Katz adds. “This is about masculinity and it’s about manhood.” Other factors are important too, for example, how masculinity intersects with mental illness or emotional problems or with access to guns. “But we need to be talking about gender front and center.”

The question of not only: “What about men?” But “What about white masculinity?” should be, according to Katz, on the front page of every newspaper and on every talk show.

Much more at the source. This is a little lengthy, but a lot of valid points are made. Make sure you read this.

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#tw violence   #massacres   #violence   #guns   #mental health   #men   #race   #jackson katz   #gender   #newtown  

Let’s examine this:

Miss is a word for a woman that has not been married.

Mrs. is an abbreviation of the word Mistress, used as a title for a woman that is married or widowed.

Ms. is a title used for a woman whose marital status is unknown or irrelevant (as in business).

The letters Ms. are not an abbreviation of a word, they are an amalgamation drawn from the letters of Miss and Mrs.

On the other hand, a man is just a mister (Mr.)

You see men don’t have to determine their sexual availability like women.

Laila Alsabahi (via goodpeopledosomething)

I remember some gobshite in the bank tried to tell me I couldn’t be down as Ms. because that was for divorced women. like, what. I can decide which title I get, asshole. This was another woman, too. We do love internalising that shit.

(via esmeweatherwax)

I always use Ms. (can’t wait to use Dr!) and when I was living in the UK my friend said ‘Ms’ is for spinsters and that I should use ‘Miss’. 

I’ll use whatever damn title I want and if I don’t want a title I won’t use it. 

…I wonder if I can put Viscount on a credit card form…?

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#gender  
peacecorps:

Every minute, a young woman is newly infected with HIV

peacecorps:

Every minute, a young woman is newly infected with HIV

There are female athletes who will be competing at the Olympic Games this summer after undergoing treatment to make them less masculine.

Still others are being secretly investigated for displaying overly manly characteristics, as sport’s highest medical officials attempt to quantify — and regulate — the hormonal difference between male and female athletes.

Caster Semenya, the South African runner who was so fast and muscular that many suspected she was a man, exploded onto the front pages three years ago. She was considered an outlier, a one-time anomaly.

But similar cases are emerging all over the world, and Semenya, who was banned from competition for 11 months while authorities investigated her sex, is back, vying for gold.

Semenya and other women like her face a complex question: Does a female athlete whose body naturally produces unusually high levels of male hormones, allowing them to put on more muscle mass and recover faster, have an “unfair” advantage?

In a move critics call “policing femininity,” recent rule changes by the International Association of Athletics Federations (IAAF), the governing body of track and field, state that for a woman to compete, her testosterone must not exceed the male threshold.

Caster Semenya, 21, who lives and trains at the centre as unobtrusively as possible, remains the unwilling poster girl for the issue.

In 2009, she was at the centre of an international controversy after winning the 800-metre world championship with a scorching time of 1:55:45, by an astounding two-second margin.

Her competitors were quick to point fingers at the boyish teenager, whose muscular biceps and husky voice inspired snide remarks. “These kind of people should not run with us. For me, she’s not a woman. She’s a man,” said Elisa Cusma, an Italian who placed sixth in the race.

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#olympics   #london   #intersex   #sexuality   #gender   #racing   #running   #women's rights   #feminism  
canisfamiliaris:

On women’s issues, men are quoted overwhelmingly more often than women. 
(via think-progress)

Well you see, it’s because men overwhelmingly know more about women’s health…

canisfamiliaris:

On women’s issues, men are quoted overwhelmingly more often than women. 

(via think-progress)

Well you see, it’s because men overwhelmingly know more about women’s health…

itsnotovertonight:

A slide from anthropology class that I found quite powerful.

itsnotovertonight:

A slide from anthropology class that I found quite powerful.

(via daelio)

#gender   #violence   #spousal abuse   #queue   #homicide   #death  
canisfamiliaris:

Argentina First in World to Remove All Barriers to Gender Change
Argentina now leads the world in transgender rights after giving people the freedom to change their legal and physical gender identity simply because they want to, without having to undergo judicial, psychiatric and medical procedures beforehand.
The gender identity law that won congressional approval with a 55-0 Senate vote Wednesday night is the latest in a growing list of bold moves on social issues by the Argentine government, which also legalized gay marriage two years ago. These changes primarily affect minority groups, but they are fundamental, President Cristina Fernandez has said, for a democratic society.

canisfamiliaris:

Argentina First in World to Remove All Barriers to Gender Change

Argentina now leads the world in transgender rights after giving people the freedom to change their legal and physical gender identity simply because they want to, without having to undergo judicial, psychiatric and medical procedures beforehand.

The gender identity law that won congressional approval with a 55-0 Senate vote Wednesday night is the latest in a growing list of bold moves on social issues by the Argentine government, which also legalized gay marriage two years ago. These changes primarily affect minority groups, but they are fundamental, President Cristina Fernandez has said, for a democratic society.

#argentina   #gender   #human rights   #queue  

canisfamiliaris:

“I think if I had been male, I wouldn’t have been pushing these anthropomorphic ideas. I was told I shouldn’t have given the chimps names, that it is more scientific to number them, and that you shouldn’t talk about their personalities, their minds, or their feelings because those are attributes of our own species. Fortunately, I was able to think back to the wonderful teacher I had as a child who taught me that animals do have personalities, minds, and feelings, and that was my dog Rusty. I had the courage of my convictions, and learned how to write in such a way as not to be open to intense criticism from my peers. In fact, I think my gender helped me. When I began, feminism wasn’t really a concept. Going out into the field as a woman, there wasn’t that urgency most young men felt back then to be the breadwinner. I wasn’t interested in academia. I didn’t want tenure in a university. I wanted to get my PhD because that was the only way I’d get my own [research] money. In Africa, it was a benefit to be a woman because, in 1961, with their newly acquired independence, the Tanzanians were not very at ease with white males, because white males had lorded over them in the colonies. But they didn’t perceive me as a [threat]. When I first wanted to go to Africa, everybody laughed at me: We didn’t have any money, World War II was raging and Africa was “the Dark Continent,” but most importantly I was a girl. “Jane, get real: Girls don’t do this kind of thing, living with animals in the forest.” But my mother was a very strong woman, and she used to say, “If you really want something and you work hard, take advantage of opportunity and never give up, you will find a way.” That’s the message I’ve taken to children, particularly girls, all around the world.”

(via therecipe)

#jane goodall   #primate   #science   #gender  
In one experiment, five young mothers were observed interacting with a 6 month old called beth. They smiled at her often and offered her dolls to play with. She was seen as ‘sweet,’ having a ‘soft cry’. The reaction of a second group of mothers to a child the same age, named Adam, was noticeably different. They offered him a train or other ‘male’ toys to play with. Beth and Adam were actually the same child, dressed in different clothes.
Experiment detailed in my sociology textbook to detail the early impression of gender roles. (via emaconly)

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The solution is to not gender others when you don’t know their gender. If you see someone, you don’t just think you know their name right? Like, if you saw someone walking down the street, you wouldn’t just be like, “Their name is definitely Mark.” Genders/pronouns/etc. (as much as people want to argue that this isn’t true) work the same way.
#quote   #gender  
fuckyeahretailrobin:

We offer complimentary gift wrapping in three different colors. I ask what color and they tell me the gender. I didn’t ask that. I asked what color. I like to say-that’s great, now which color would you like. Or I take it upon myself to wrap it in purple for a boy especially. Some people get offended and tell me that purple isn’t a boy color. I tell them I beg to differ, it’s my husband’s favourite color!

Someone once asked me if I had a particular product in ‘boy colours.’
I asked ‘what are boy colours?’
They looked at me like I was the idiot. 

fuckyeahretailrobin:

We offer complimentary gift wrapping in three different colors. I ask what color and they tell me the gender. I didn’t ask that. I asked what color. I like to say-that’s great, now which color would you like. Or I take it upon myself to wrap it in purple for a boy especially. Some people get offended and tell me that purple isn’t a boy color. I tell them I beg to differ, it’s my husband’s favourite color!

Someone once asked me if I had a particular product in ‘boy colours.’

I asked ‘what are boy colours?’

They looked at me like I was the idiot. 

#retail robin   #retail   #gender  
mohandasgandhi:

Some women also have penises. One should get over that as well. In fact, some people have both! That’s just more to get over.

mohandasgandhi:

Some women also have penises. One should get over that as well. In fact, some people have both! That’s just more to get over.

#trans   #lgbt   #sex   #gender   #human rights  
…man is defined as a human being and woman is defined as a female. Whenever she tries to behave as a human being she is accused of trying to emulate the male…

Simone de Beauvoir

The Masked Lily

don’t call a woman “mannish” or “masculine” without asking yourself whether the characteristics you’re referring to actually have something to do with maleness, or have simply historically been considered too human for women to have access to.

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#feminism   #gender   #simone de beauvoir   #quote  
[W]e’re not really equal when we’re STILL supposed to uncritically and obediently cheer when white women are praised for winning “women’s rights,” and to painfully forget the Indigenous women and women of colour who were hurt in that same process. We are not equal when in the name of “feminism” so-called “women’s only” spaces are created and get to police and regulate who is and isn’t a woman based ontheir interpretation of your body parts and gender presentation, and not your own. We are not equal when initatives to support gender equality have reverted yet again to “saving” people and making decisions for them, rather than supporting their right to self-determination, whether it’s engaging in sex work or wearing a niqab. So when feminism itself has become it’s own form of oppression, what do we have to say about it? […]
jessica yee, [feminism for real: deconstructing the academic industrial complex of feminism] (via newanddifferentsun)

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#feminism   #gender   #quote   #truth   #jessica yee